Are you more of an introvert or an extrovert (or right in the middle)? How do you know? Post your response with specific examples about why you feel this way.
I believe that I am more of an introvert with extrovert tendencies. I like to stay at home and be alone. I love to spend a lot of time doing things for and by myself. I'm not a heavy party goer ( I usually only go because people say I need to get out more.)I would rather read or write in my journal. Socializing is more of a made effort for me rather than a natural capability. When I am at work, though, I do like to intermingle with my coworkers just to join in on discussions or ask questions about teaching.
i wanted to find out what this meant as oprah said this is what dr. phil is. you described me to a T.
although i'm retired, when i attend functions at the senior centre, people think i'm an extrovert, but my heart is pounding and sometimes i have to breathe through an anxiety attack.
i read, journal and write, as well.
i am just finding names for all of my 'eccentricies'. i just found out i have paracosm. do you have this, too?
I am 60% introverted and 40% extroverted on one personality test that I completed. Just to see if the results were reliable, I tried another personality test and it proved what I always assumed that I was undeniably introverted.
As I assess myself, I am a bit reserved in some instances as it relates to going out to various venues. Like most people, I enjoy socializing, but I also value my alone time. Overall, I think I have a good balance.
I rank anywhere from 50-60% Extroverted and 40-50% introverted. I graduated in psychology and was a guinea pig for either decent pay or extra credit during many tests and experiments. I typically scored within these ranges.
I am more introverted when I'm short sleep which makes sense because it's hard to draw energy from social situations when I'm short with people. When I'm well rested I'm energized by being around people. Even though I ask is it worth being in certain situations, being around people is almost like a game, if I can strike up a conversation that goes somewhere meaningful.
I believe I can be both an introvert and an extrovert. It depends on the situation at the time. I feel I'm outgoing at certain times and other times I'm quiet and observing and don't want to be bother. I took the test and got 9 right, that doesn't mean I introvert or extrovert.
I've always thought I was more of an extrovert, but was confused by my tendencies to want to be alone. I took the test that you linked us to and I scored 50%. That is probably correct, because I can be very out going. I love to have family get-togethers with my friends and I'm usually the life of the party. I'm very talkative and can get along with most anybody. However, there are times when I just want to be totally left alone. I retreat into total solitude, and I love it. Even though I am a "people person", and what you see is who I am, I have very few close friends that know me really well. I can be very open, or I can shut down and be withdrawn. However, I'm usually more open the majority of the time.
My Myers Briggs profile was taken 15 years ago in a corporate business setting as an ESTJ, but was borderline E/I. Additionally, there was some comparison among peers (which were all electrical/computer engineers) in which I appeared highly extrovert in a relative sense among a competitive business setting. Although I enjoy people, being raised as the oldest of seven children, I have come to appreciate my quiet time, although very rare. I would describe myself as an introvert when compared amongst the general population, but am comfortable speaking in large settings, likely due to my training and experience.
When I was younger, I believe I was more of an extrovert. I loved being around people and was happiest with a long agenda of activities involving plenty of family and friends. I always had something to say and wasn't overly concerned about how my message was received.
As I have become older, however, I have become more introverted. I enjoy listening more than speaking now and I am always delighted when I converse with someone who challenges me to think differently. My favorite people are the ones who still have me thinking about our topics of conversation long after we have said good bye.
I took the test you linked us to. I found it interesting that I scored 33%. I feel I am still confused if I am an introvert or extrovert because it depends on the situation I am in. At work, I like to mingle with my co-workers. I enjoy parties. I enjoy being with with a crowd or alone. I am leaning more towards introvert because I do have to encourage myself to attend social events. But once I am there, it’s all good. In class, I prefer to listen, watch, do the activities alone, sharing only if I chose too. Then I feel this may be because I am so interest in what others are thinking on this subject and my need to understand GT. As for as socially, when I was younger, if there was any social event happening, I wanted to go. Now I can be satisfied just staying at home. I don’t know if I am introvert or extrovert or have learned to adapt with time?
I feel that I am primarily introverted. I remember being mortified in Sunday School at the age of 4 or so when the teacher commented in front of everyone that I was so quiet. I was just processing! I took the test via the link and scored 29%. The test, though, scored the responses as correct or incorrect. Excuse me?? Is this an example of societal bias against introverts? I am now middle aged and I feel that introversion/extroversion can change throughout ones life. At different points in my life, I have been more introverted than at other points.
I believe I am an introvert. It is easy for me to make friends, but I have so many introvert tendencies. Ever since I can remember, I was known as the shy and quiet one. I am not as shy anymore because I have learned how to be social depending on the situation. I work really well with other people, especially at school. I love to be around other teachers at work, but I find myself wanting to be alone at home a lot, probably because I never get to! I enjoy going out and being out in large groups, but at a certain point I am always ready to go home. I am definitely more introverted than extroverted, but I still have a few qualities of being extroverted such as being a people person. I find it easy to talk to people I don't know or to speak in a large group. I'm very friendly and outgoing in that area. Other than that, I'm content staying home with my doggy and relaxing!
On the assessment I scored 60% introverted, and that result makes sense to me: • I am a reflective person, I need time to think about issues, and for example I only participate in class discussions when I have a complete answer, and by that time the class has moved on in to something else. • I like to listen to other people’s ideas, and make connections, for me it is exciting. • I only have a few friends- friends I have kept for a life time- it is difficult for me to make new friends. • Also, I talk to myself a lot, sometimes my husband catches me talking out loud and he thinks that it is weird. I agree with him, but I guess I enjoy my company reflecting about things! • I also need quiet time to read and study, noises are very distracting for me.
There were no doubts about it when the question was post. I have always known that I am introverted. I have an older sister and she is the opposite of what I am. That right there told me from a young age that I was introverted. I remember family and friends always comparing both of us and saying, “She is so quite” (me) and my sister so outgoing and friendlier. I also took one of the personality tests and it strongly showed what I have always known. But, for the past few years, I have tried to do things that extrovert people tend to do, such as start a conversation and keeping it alive. I work well with people, especially my colleagues and it seems that they like the way I am. They think I bring balance to the group by being rational and calm (I am surrounding by extrovert colleagues).
I consider myself an introvert. I am a warm and compassionate person. I am well aware of my own's feelings and other's feelings. I usually make good friends but close to only a few. I tend to process ideas first before speaking them loud and that is the reason why I don't like arguments and discussions. Most of the time, I only attend parties given by my friends and feel awkward in social gatherings specially in the presence of new acquaintance.
I am definately an introvert. I love my alone time and I have always enjoyed reading. Growing up I was always told that I am quiet just like my mother. I consider myself a friendly person that gets along with pretty much everyone. I enjoy conversations with coworkers and friends. I do not go out a lot to parties or social gatherings. If I do, it is mostly family oriented. I am married to an extrovert, which balances things because he is very talkative and I am the listener.
I am an extrovert. I like to be around people. I am always going,doing and exploring. I love being outside doing anything. I am a talkative person. Growing up my mother would always tell me to sit down and be still. I am also a little (10%) bit of an introvert. I like to have some me time.
I am definitely an introvert at heart! I am quiet and shy and don't like to be the center of attention. I do enjoy going to parties and love big crowds, but at the same time I "plan" for the interactions that may come up and I value social events more for the fun atmosphere and people-watching. I thought it was really funny during class when it was brought up that most introverts have a "dual" personality. I do! I can be out-going when I need to, I can captivate a classroom full of students on a daily basis and put myself out there, yet if another adult comes in I feel very vulnerable and get instantly nervous, even though I have an inner confidence in what I know and do. I take time to process conversations and plans in my head before engaging when I can, and I will avoid all confrontations to the best of my ability! I am very friendly, but take time to make new friends and mainly stick to my close friends. Sometimes I balance out my social "uncomfortableness" by starting/maintaining conversations so others don't have to sit through the awkward air (and sometimes this feels like a really big step I'm taking!).
According to the Myers-Briggs type indicator I happen to be an ENTJ (Extrovert-Intuition-Thinking-Judging).
As an extrovert, I act first, usually open and motivated by the outside work of people and things.
My intuition makes me live in the future, and best improvise from theoretical understanding.
My thinking characteristics make me look for facts and logic, and I work for tasks to be accomplished.
My judging characteristics make me plan in advance, I don't like surprises, I work best when I try to avoid stress when I am able to keep ahead of deadlines.
This test was given to me in the UK, whilst doing my MBA for experienced managers, by people authorised to give the test officially.
Anyone who knows me would probably say that I'm an introvert (overall). I'm quiet and reserved, prefer doing things on my own at my own pace, more of a listener, dislikes being the center of attention, and enjoys gatherings with a small group of close friends vs. large. Over the years, I've really made an attempt to be more extroverted thinking (or from being told by friends) that I can seem anti-social, etc. It's interesting to me that my friends are extroverts while my family consists of introverts.
I am an introvert. I try harder at work to appear more extroverted so as not to come across as seeming to be standoffish. I have a close circle of friends, my husband is extroverted which has caused issues because often times I come up with a mysterious headache when it's time to go out. I rarely go to clubs or parties. I chose not to have a wedding because it would be too many people. I love to stay home and read a good book, or do quiet things.
I am definitely an introvert. (No test needed!) As a child, I would get home from school, tell my mother a few tidbits on school activities, and head to my room to read. I remember coming home from school in 8th grade, and being very excited about something. My mother's best friend was in the living room with my mother. I told my mother about whatever my news was. (3 or 4 long sentences) As I was leaving the room, I overheard her friend say to my mother, "I didn't know she could talk!" In my adult life I went through law school for my first career, and my husband used to say that he married the world's only shy attorney. I spent 15 years in regulatory and contracts law. Wordsmithing was my thing, but I was never comfortable, nor even competent, with negotiating face to face or courtroom appearances. Now, I love teaching, but I am always nervous when any adult comes into my room to observe. I positively hate parent conference days, and will do almost anything not to have to pick up the phone and initiate a conversation. I probably only still have friends from college because they have made it their life's work to keep me in their lives!I am grateful to the group in law school who got me involved in intramural sports, where I met my quite extrovert future husband. Also, he has kept me out there, having parties from time to time, so that I don't spend my whole life with a good book, ensconced in my room.
I am…or I’ve been in essence, an introvert... idealism and daydreaming included. However, I do not believe defining me is that straight forward or simple. As I reflect on my childhood years, I can see how my mom made sure (either she planned it that way, or it was just her way of raising my brother and me) that I always had different opportunities to be exposed, involved, participant or even initiate social interactions. Even then, I remember enjoying and willingly participating in every activity – traveling, sports, arts, dance, drama, etc, - but having a hard time when it came to fulfilling the social requirements that usually came with it. I would not always fit in the group, although I would make an effort and I always had good friends around. In hostile territories, I managed to survive, but it was no fun for me. I take pride in how I have had the opportunity to find myself in so many different circles, met people from so many different backgrounds and still be able to interact, learn from the experience…or at least add a good anecdote to my baggage. I guess my own struggles finding a common ground with other kids, made my mind open to accept, or at least listen, to different points of view and try to understand where they came from. Even so, at the end of the day, I will still need a time on my own or at home with my family to recover the energy invested, and I sill keep to myself some of my fundamental ideas, opinions or beliefs…especially those I know others will not be as appreciative of them. One more thing…you are only learning this little bit about me because this is a written assignment. Paper –or word processor in this instance- has always been more patient to my thoughts…and now is working as a filter to some of my defense mechanisms…including feeling a little uneasy towards blogging about myself...
I have no doubt that I am a TRUE extrovert! I somply love people and I love making others laugh! No matter the environment I always like to leave a positive impact with people and I like to make them remember me! Most of them remember my bubbly personality and my witty sense of humor. I get energy from myself and it grows when I make other people laugh. That is a gift that God gave me because most people remember me from my personality and the ability to make them others as well as my impersonations.
When I looked up extroverts this is what I found...
Extroverts are very comfortable in groups, and may be even happier as the center of attention. Traditional extroverts' personality traits are self-confident, enthusiastic, gregarious, friendly, and outgoing. Extroverts love crowds: the more people around, the better life is! Extroverts like public demonstrations, community events, and other large social gatherings.
Extroverts are highly receptive and tuned-in with their environment, and are naturally responsive with people. Extroverts' personality traits steer them towards jobs that are people-oriented, such as sales or leadership positions. Extroverts can be easier to get to know than introverts because they're more open with their thoughts, feelings, and opinions.
When deciding on my answer to this question of whether I am an introvert or extrovert, I felt I was some of both in almost equal amounts. I also had the feeling that I did not want to be an introvert because I felt it was not as good as being an extrovert. After taking the Myers-Briggs test, I find that I am INFJ or Introvert Intuitive Feeling Judging and career match for Idealist/Counselor category does include teacher, manager and sales which are my current and former occupations! I enbrace my introverted personality after all the years! I love to read and often can't wait to get home or get a break so that I can get back into the story of my book. It definitely energizes me to read and be alone if I have something to do. I do not like to be alone all the time and enjoy time with others, especially family and close friends. I am not very good at keeping up with friends and acquaintances and often don't put the energy into keeping friends. Teaching is a passion but it definitely drains me by days end! I love being the leader of learning or the facilitator and sometimes I can be a good outgoing performer but then I am pretty tired. I like to go to parties once I am there but often have to make myself get out the door. In the evenings, once home, I am usually in for the night.
I score 54% in my test score, I believe I’m right in the middle, I love to go out to parties and make friends but I also need some time by my self, I like to read books and just stay home having a quiet relaxing time. I’m a good listener and don’t talk to much.
I am 38% introverted. I was somewhat shocked that I wasn't closer to 50%. I agree with what many of you are saying, that it depends on the time in your life and what is going on, whether you are intro/extroverted. I remember as a child, I was very shy and didn't have many friends, however, I did move several times and being quiet was my way of adapting to the new environment. In most cases, I prefer to be with others and enjoy going places and seeing/exploring new things. There are definitely times where I just want to be by myself or do things alone. That is why I enjoy the teaching profession because I can be both happily. I can work with the team to collaborate and engage to feed my extrovert tendencies, then go to my room and shut my door when I want to be alone.
I am right in the middle. In some situations I tend to be introvert, for example if I have to talk in public or if I am in a place where I don´t know anyone I would first stay quiet until I feel comfortable enough to open myself but in the other hand I can also be extrovert specially when I am in a known situation. I love going out and be around a big crowd but as I mentioned before I like it more when I am around people I already know.
I wear my sunglasses at night. Reading for days on end. Some "outty" tendencies; guitarist, singer/songwriter, band member. I enjoy collaborating with a few good friends and sharing the results with large groups. This exercise was most interesting in that you can be who you truly are.
I am definitely an introvert. I feel very uncomfortable at large gatherings and parties, especially if I don't know many people at the event. The only times when I feel comfortable in front of a large group is when I am teaching. I am a DJ and at times I have to perform as an MC for weddings or other events. I usually try to get someone else to do it, but when I have to do it, I practice exactly what I am going to say and I fake it like I'm in the classroom. I asked my Pre AP class this same question and my students were surprised when I told them that I was an introvert. At the end of the day, I guess you could could say that I am excellent at "faking it!!"
I am an introvert. The online test (score 33%) confirmed what I already knew. I do enjoy my own company and cherish the time I can be alone (after being around energetic children all day, I need to recharge). I am definitely an observer and a listener and find most people’s activities and opinions interesting. I find myself connecting what is said to what I remember, to what I think, but am usually not able to articulate any appropriate comment “on the spot”, and sometimes, I don’t even care to share. I work best in small groups (maximum 4 people) although when studying or working, I have always absorbed information so much better on my own because I don’t need the social interaction to process the new ideas, and don't need to hear myself say something out loud in order to learn it. I will not volunteer to give a speech, but if asked (with enough time to prepare) probably will do it. Right now, I am comfortable with who I am, knowing how I am and what works for me, while sometimes trying out new things out of my comfort zone.
I am about 70% intoverted and 30% extroverted. While I am teaching during the day, I truly love engaging with my students and get my energy from the give and take with them.I also enjoy the conversations and company of my friends at work.
When I am not working, I prefer to be alone and draw my energy from my inner world. I like to read, watch good movies and walk or travel alone. Social situations such as parties make me very anxious and eager to escape. Lines or groups of people like in an amusement park make me crazy. "Meet and greet" activities or forced participation in class make me very uncomfortable.
I am more in the middle of both. The first test I took leaned more towards introvert, but the second test labeled me as both. I love to meet new people and talk to them about anything whether it is standing in line waiting to get checked out at the grociery store and even while riding in the elevator. If I have had a week when I have been around a lot of people, I prefer to sit at home on Saturday or Sunday, sometimes both and not answer the phone or hang out with friends. Sometimes close friends may not here from me for weeks at a time.
I feel like I am an introvert although I sometimes act like an extrovert. As a child, I was extremely reserved. I had to be rewarded by my parents for asking or ansering questions at school. I hated when the teacher would make us work in groups. As I got to high school and college, however, I started to come out of my shell and realize that life was easier if I was more outgoing. I have a small group of close friends and lots of acquaintances as it takes me a while to open up to new friends. I like to be by myself at times and find that when I get overwhelmed, I need that alone time. I love to go out but always need exact plans and worry about the details. Therefore, I believe I am an introvert with a few extrovert qualities.
There is no question about my being an introvert. I am perfectly capable of interacting with others in normal ways and may even seem gregarious at times, but that only comes with great effort on my part. I prefer to watch others interact than to participate and seldom initiate conversations. Growing up, I was the only one of my many cousins to bring a book the the family gatherings tucking myself away in a corner while they chatted and joked. In college, when I found a wonderful group of friends with whom I shared many common interests and whose company I greatly enjoyed, I often felt stressed out by speding so much emotional energy keeping up with even pleasant interactions. I would frequently run away to hike, take long bicycle rides, or just wander around listening to music. When I need my batteries recharged, I turn inward by listening to music, writing, reading, hiking. I need my fortress of solitude to stay strong.
I found this smorgasboard of tests:
http://similarminds.com/personality_tests.html
I plan to play around with them when I have a spare moment. Just what an introvert loves--greater self-exploration.
I am right in between. I am a very social person and I do like to be around people in a social setting and am very capable of working collaboratively with my team but on the other hand I do enjoy spending time on my own and self exploring what I am going to be covering.Once I have spend my time exploring I love to share ideas.
I consider myself a mix between the two personalities. According to the various exams that I have taken, I am right in the middle. Sometimes, I am energized from being around people. At other times, I find social gatherings exhausting. Occasionally, I enjoy being alone so that I can concentrate and focus. Overall, I feel that I am an excellent observer and listener.
I believe I am a good mix of both. I enjoy hanging out with people, but I do like my time alone to re-energize myself. I also have a very phlegmatic personality. I enjoy watching how people operate, and then giving my input.
By being in between both types, I feel I am able to understand and get a better read on my students and people in general.
I guess I would say I'm both it just depends on my mood. When I was younger I was an extrovert off the charts. I couldn’t go anywhere by myself and I always had to have someone with me. Now that I'm older I love spending time alone and I’m not afraid to go places by myself actually I prefer it. I don't have to be the life of the party like when I was younger but sometimes I find myself being one of the ones that is the life of the party(just depends on how I feel). Maybe that has a lot to do with being a wife and a mother of two small children. But I am still very comfortable in groups and even when I am sick I don't have to be by myself. But you won’t catch me buried in a book. I am one of those people who meet know strangers I start conversations with everyone. I have had conversations with everyone on my campus from cafeteria workers to custodial staff. When it's time to be in a group I'm usually the group leader. I don't need a crowd to get my energy I usually find it within myself.
I am an introvert. An introvert is a person who enjoys spending time thinking and reflecting. Introverts draw energy from within themselves vs. extroverts who draw energy from others. According to several Introvert/Extrovert Tests, it is proven that I am truly an introvert.
For example, when completing lesson plans, I MUST have space and quiet time to think things through. It is difficult for me to feel comfortable socializing in large gatherings.
I believe that I am more of an introvert with extrovert tendencies. I like to stay at home and be alone. I love to spend a lot of time doing things for and by myself. I'm not a heavy party goer ( I usually only go because people say I need to get out more.)I would rather read or write in my journal. Socializing is more of a made effort for me rather than a natural capability. When I am at work, though, I do like to intermingle with my coworkers just to join in on discussions or ask questions about teaching.
ReplyDeletei wanted to find out what this meant as oprah said this is what dr. phil is. you described me to a T.
Deletealthough i'm retired, when i attend functions at the senior centre, people think i'm an extrovert, but my heart is pounding and sometimes i have to breathe through an anxiety attack.
i read, journal and write, as well.
i am just finding names for all of my 'eccentricies'. i just found out i have paracosm. do you have this, too?
God bless,
miss josh
I am 60% introverted and 40% extroverted on one personality test that I completed. Just to see if the results were reliable, I tried another personality test and it proved what I always assumed that I was undeniably introverted.
ReplyDeleteAs I assess myself, I am a bit reserved in some instances as it relates to going out to various venues. Like most people, I enjoy socializing, but I also value my alone time. Overall, I think I have a good balance.
I rank anywhere from 50-60% Extroverted and 40-50% introverted. I graduated in psychology and was a guinea pig for either decent pay or extra credit during many tests and experiments. I typically scored within these ranges.
ReplyDeleteI am more introverted when I'm short sleep which makes sense because it's hard to draw energy from social situations when I'm short with people. When I'm well rested I'm energized by being around people. Even though I ask is it worth being in certain situations, being around people is almost like a game, if I can strike up a conversation that goes somewhere meaningful.
I believe I can be both an introvert and an extrovert. It depends on the situation at the time. I feel I'm outgoing at certain times and other times I'm quiet and observing and don't want to be bother. I took the test and got 9 right, that doesn't mean I introvert or extrovert.
ReplyDeleteI've always thought I was more of an extrovert, but was confused by my tendencies to want to be alone. I took the test that you linked us to and I scored 50%. That is probably correct, because I can be very out going. I love to have family get-togethers with my friends and I'm usually the life of the party. I'm very talkative and can get along with most anybody. However, there are times when I just want to be totally left alone. I retreat into total solitude, and I love it. Even though I am a "people person", and what you see is who I am, I have very few close friends that know me really well. I can be very open, or I can shut down and be withdrawn. However, I'm usually more open the majority of the time.
ReplyDeleteMy Myers Briggs profile was taken 15 years ago in a corporate business setting as an ESTJ, but was borderline E/I. Additionally, there was some comparison among peers (which were all electrical/computer engineers) in which I appeared highly extrovert in a relative sense among a competitive business setting. Although I enjoy people, being raised as the oldest of seven children, I have come to appreciate my quiet time, although very rare. I would describe myself as an introvert when compared amongst the general population, but am comfortable speaking in large settings, likely due to my training and experience.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was younger, I believe I was more of an extrovert. I loved being around people and was happiest with a long agenda of activities involving plenty of family and friends. I always had something to say and wasn't overly concerned about how my message was received.
ReplyDeleteAs I have become older, however, I have become more introverted. I enjoy listening more than speaking now and I am always delighted when I converse with someone who challenges me to think differently. My favorite people are the ones who still have me thinking about our topics of conversation long after we have said good bye.
I took the test you linked us to. I found it interesting that I scored 33%. I feel I am still confused if I am an introvert or extrovert because it depends on the situation I am in. At work, I like to mingle with my co-workers. I enjoy parties. I enjoy being with with a crowd or alone. I am leaning more towards introvert because I do have to encourage myself to attend social events. But once I am there, it’s all good. In class, I prefer to listen, watch, do the activities alone, sharing only if I chose too. Then I feel this may be because I am so interest in what others are thinking on this subject and my need to understand GT. As for as socially, when I was younger, if there was any social event happening, I wanted to go. Now I can be satisfied just staying at home. I don’t know if I am introvert or extrovert or have learned to adapt with time?
ReplyDeleteI feel that I am primarily introverted. I remember being mortified in Sunday School at the age of 4 or so when the teacher commented in front of everyone that I was so quiet. I was just processing!
ReplyDeleteI took the test via the link and scored 29%. The test, though, scored the responses as correct or incorrect. Excuse me?? Is this an example of societal bias against introverts?
I am now middle aged and I feel that introversion/extroversion can change throughout ones life. At different points in my life, I have been more introverted than at other points.
I believe I am an introvert. It is easy for me to make friends, but I have so many introvert tendencies. Ever since I can remember, I was known as the shy and quiet one. I am not as shy anymore because I have learned how to be social depending on the situation. I work really well with other people, especially at school. I love to be around other teachers at work, but I find myself wanting to be alone at home a lot, probably because I never get to! I enjoy going out and being out in large groups, but at a certain point I am always ready to go home. I am definitely more introverted than extroverted, but I still have a few qualities of being extroverted such as being a people person. I find it easy to talk to people I don't know or to speak in a large group. I'm very friendly and outgoing in that area. Other than that, I'm content staying home with my doggy and relaxing!
ReplyDeleteOn the assessment I scored 60% introverted, and that result makes sense to me:
ReplyDelete• I am a reflective person, I need time to think about issues, and for example I only participate in class discussions when I have a complete answer, and by that time the class has moved on in to something else.
• I like to listen to other people’s ideas, and make connections, for me it is exciting.
• I only have a few friends- friends I have kept for a life time- it is difficult for me to make new friends.
• Also, I talk to myself a lot, sometimes my husband catches me talking out loud and he thinks that it is weird. I agree with him, but I guess I enjoy my company reflecting about things!
• I also need quiet time to read and study, noises are very distracting for me.
There were no doubts about it when the question was post. I have always known that I am introverted. I have an older sister and she is the opposite of what I am. That right there told me from a young age that I was introverted. I remember family and friends always comparing both of us and saying, “She is so quite” (me) and my sister so outgoing and friendlier. I also took one of the personality tests and it strongly showed what I have always known. But, for the past few years, I have tried to do things that extrovert people tend to do, such as start a conversation and keeping it alive. I work well with people, especially my colleagues and it seems that they like the way I am. They think I bring balance to the group by being rational and calm (I am surrounding by extrovert colleagues).
ReplyDeleteI consider myself an introvert. I am a warm and compassionate person. I am well aware of my own's feelings and other's feelings. I usually make good friends but close to only a few. I tend to process ideas first before speaking them loud and that is the reason why I don't like arguments and discussions. Most of the time, I only attend parties given by my friends and feel awkward in social gatherings specially in the presence of new acquaintance.
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ReplyDeleteI am definately an introvert. I love my alone time and I have always enjoyed reading. Growing up I was always told that I am quiet just like my mother. I consider myself a friendly person that gets along with pretty much everyone. I enjoy conversations with coworkers and friends. I do not go out a lot to parties or social gatherings. If I do, it is mostly family oriented. I am married to an extrovert, which balances things because he is very talkative and I am the listener.
ReplyDeleteI am an extrovert. I like to be around people. I am always going,doing and exploring. I love being outside doing anything. I am a talkative person. Growing up my mother would always tell me to sit down and be still. I am also a little (10%) bit of an introvert. I like to have some me time.
ReplyDeleteI am definitely an introvert at heart! I am quiet and shy and don't like to be the center of attention. I do enjoy going to parties and love big crowds, but at the same time I "plan" for the interactions that may come up and I value social events more for the fun atmosphere and people-watching. I thought it was really funny during class when it was brought up that most introverts have a "dual" personality. I do! I can be out-going when I need to, I can captivate a classroom full of students on a daily basis and put myself out there, yet if another adult comes in I feel very vulnerable and get instantly nervous, even though I have an inner confidence in what I know and do. I take time to process conversations and plans in my head before engaging when I can, and I will avoid all confrontations to the best of my ability! I am very friendly, but take time to make new friends and mainly stick to my close friends. Sometimes I balance out my social "uncomfortableness" by starting/maintaining conversations so others don't have to sit through the awkward air (and sometimes this feels like a really big step I'm taking!).
ReplyDeleteAccording to the Myers-Briggs type indicator I happen to be an ENTJ (Extrovert-Intuition-Thinking-Judging).
ReplyDeleteAs an extrovert, I act first, usually open and motivated by the outside work of people and things.
My intuition makes me live in the future, and best improvise from theoretical understanding.
My thinking characteristics make me look for facts and logic, and I work for tasks to be accomplished.
My judging characteristics make me plan in advance, I don't like surprises, I work best when I try to avoid stress when I am able to keep ahead of deadlines.
This test was given to me in the UK, whilst doing my MBA for experienced managers, by people authorised to give the test officially.
Anyone who knows me would probably say that I'm an introvert (overall). I'm quiet and reserved, prefer doing things on my own at my own pace, more of a listener, dislikes being the center of attention, and enjoys gatherings with a small group of close friends vs. large. Over the years, I've really made an attempt to be more extroverted thinking (or from being told by friends) that I can seem anti-social, etc. It's interesting to me that my friends are extroverts while my family consists of introverts.
ReplyDeleteI am an introvert. I try harder at work to appear more extroverted so as not to come across as seeming to be standoffish. I have a close circle of friends, my husband is extroverted which has caused issues because often times I come up with a mysterious headache when it's time to go out. I rarely go to clubs or parties. I chose not to have a wedding because it would be too many people. I love to stay home and read a good book, or do quiet things.
ReplyDeleteI am definitely an introvert. (No test needed!) As a child, I would get home from school, tell my mother a few tidbits on school activities, and head to my room to read. I remember coming home from school in 8th grade, and being very excited about something. My mother's best friend was in the living room with my mother. I told my mother about whatever my news was. (3 or 4 long sentences) As I was leaving the room, I overheard her friend say to my mother, "I didn't know she could talk!" In my adult life I went through law school for my first career, and my husband used to say that he married the world's only shy attorney. I spent 15 years in regulatory and contracts law. Wordsmithing was my thing, but I was never comfortable, nor even competent, with negotiating face to face or courtroom appearances. Now, I love teaching, but I am always nervous when any adult comes into my room to observe. I positively hate parent conference days, and will do almost anything not to have to pick up the phone and initiate a conversation. I probably only still have friends from college because they have made it their life's work to keep me in their lives!I am grateful to the group in law school who got me involved in intramural sports, where I met my quite extrovert future husband. Also, he has kept me out there, having parties from time to time, so that I don't spend my whole life with a good book, ensconced in my room.
ReplyDeleteI am…or I’ve been in essence, an introvert... idealism and daydreaming included. However, I do not believe defining me is that straight forward or simple. As I reflect on my childhood years, I can see how my mom made sure (either she planned it that way, or it was just her way of raising my brother and me) that I always had different opportunities to be exposed, involved, participant or even initiate social interactions. Even then, I remember enjoying and willingly participating in every activity – traveling, sports, arts, dance, drama, etc, - but having a hard time when it came to fulfilling the social requirements that usually came with it. I would not always fit in the group, although I would make an effort and I always had good friends around. In hostile territories, I managed to survive, but it was no fun for me. I take pride in how I have had the opportunity to find myself in so many different circles, met people from so many different backgrounds and still be able to interact, learn from the experience…or at least add a good anecdote to my baggage. I guess my own struggles finding a common ground with other kids, made my mind open to accept, or at least listen, to different points of view and try to understand where they came from. Even so, at the end of the day, I will still need a time on my own or at home with my family to recover the energy invested, and I sill keep to myself some of my fundamental ideas, opinions or beliefs…especially those I know others will not be as appreciative of them. One more thing…you are only learning this little bit about me because this is a written assignment. Paper –or word processor in this instance- has always been more patient to my thoughts…and now is working as a filter to some of my defense mechanisms…including feeling a little uneasy towards blogging about myself...
ReplyDeleteI have no doubt that I am a TRUE extrovert! I somply love people and I love making others laugh! No matter the environment I always like to leave a positive impact with people and I like to make them remember me! Most of them remember my bubbly personality and my witty sense of humor. I get energy from myself and it grows when I make other people laugh. That is a gift that God gave me because most people remember me from my personality and the ability to make them others as well as my impersonations.
ReplyDeleteWhen I looked up extroverts this is what I found...
Extroverts are very comfortable in groups, and may be even happier as the center of attention. Traditional extroverts' personality traits are self-confident, enthusiastic, gregarious, friendly, and outgoing. Extroverts love crowds: the more people around, the better life is! Extroverts like public demonstrations, community events, and other large social gatherings.
Extroverts are highly receptive and tuned-in with their environment, and are naturally responsive with people. Extroverts' personality traits steer them towards jobs that are people-oriented, such as sales or leadership positions. Extroverts can be easier to get to know than introverts because they're more open with their thoughts, feelings, and opinions.
This is 100% me!!!
When deciding on my answer to this question of whether I am an introvert or extrovert, I felt I was some of both in almost equal amounts. I also had the feeling that I did not want to be an introvert because I felt it was not as good as being an extrovert. After taking the Myers-Briggs test, I find that I am INFJ or Introvert Intuitive Feeling Judging and career match for Idealist/Counselor category does include teacher, manager and sales which are my current and former occupations! I enbrace my introverted personality after all the years! I love to read and often can't wait to get home or get a break so that I can get back into the story of my book. It definitely energizes me to read and be alone if I have something to do. I do not like to be alone all the time and enjoy time with others, especially family and close friends. I am not very good at keeping up with friends and acquaintances and often don't put the energy into keeping friends. Teaching is a passion but it definitely drains me by days end! I love being the leader of learning or the facilitator and sometimes I can be a good outgoing performer but then I am pretty tired. I like to go to parties once I am there but often have to make myself get out the door. In the evenings, once home, I am usually in for the night.
ReplyDeleteI score 54% in my test score, I believe I’m right in the middle, I love to go out to parties and make friends but I also need some time by my self, I like to read books and just stay home having a quiet relaxing time. I’m a good listener and don’t talk to much.
ReplyDeleteI am 38% introverted. I was somewhat shocked that I wasn't closer to 50%. I agree with what many of you are saying, that it depends on the time in your life and what is going on, whether you are intro/extroverted. I remember as a child, I was very shy and didn't have many friends, however, I did move several times and being quiet was my way of adapting to the new environment. In most cases, I prefer to be with others and enjoy going places and seeing/exploring new things. There are definitely times where I just want to be by myself or do things alone. That is why I enjoy the teaching profession because I can be both happily. I can work with the team to collaborate and engage to feed my extrovert tendencies, then go to my room and shut my door when I want to be alone.
ReplyDeleteI am right in the middle. In some situations I tend to be introvert, for example if I have to talk in public or if I am in a place where I don´t know anyone I would first stay quiet until I feel comfortable enough to open myself but in the other hand I can also be extrovert specially when I am in a known situation. I love going out and be around a big crowd but as I mentioned before I like it more when I am around people I already know.
ReplyDeleteI wear my sunglasses at night. Reading for days on end. Some "outty" tendencies; guitarist, singer/songwriter, band member. I enjoy collaborating with a few good friends and sharing the results with large groups. This exercise was most interesting in that you can be who you truly are.
ReplyDeleteI am definitely an introvert. I feel very uncomfortable at large gatherings and parties, especially if I don't know many people at the event. The only times when I feel comfortable in front of a large group is when I am teaching. I am a DJ and at times I have to perform as an MC for weddings or other events. I usually try to get someone else to do it, but when I have to do it, I practice exactly what I am going to say and I fake it like I'm in the classroom. I asked my Pre AP class this same question and my students were surprised when I told them that I was an introvert. At the end of the day, I guess you could could say that I am excellent at "faking it!!"
ReplyDeleteI am an introvert. The online test (score 33%) confirmed what I already knew. I do enjoy my own company and cherish the time I can be alone (after being around energetic children all day, I need to recharge). I am definitely an observer and a listener and find most people’s activities and opinions interesting. I find myself connecting what is said to what I remember, to what I think, but am usually not able to articulate any appropriate comment “on the spot”, and sometimes, I don’t even care to share. I work best in small groups (maximum 4 people) although when studying or working, I have always absorbed information so much better on my own because I don’t need the social interaction to process the new ideas, and don't need to hear myself say something out loud in order to learn it. I will not volunteer to give a speech, but if asked (with enough time to prepare) probably will do it. Right now, I am comfortable with who I am, knowing how I am and what works for me, while sometimes trying out new things out of my comfort zone.
ReplyDeleteI am about 70% intoverted and 30% extroverted. While I am teaching during the day, I truly love engaging with my students and get my energy from the give and take with them.I also enjoy the conversations and company of my friends at work.
ReplyDeleteWhen I am not working, I prefer to be alone and draw my energy from my inner world. I like to read, watch good movies and walk or travel alone. Social situations such as parties make me very anxious and eager to escape. Lines or groups of people like in an amusement park make me crazy. "Meet and greet" activities or forced participation in class make me very uncomfortable.
I am more in the middle of both. The first test I took leaned more towards introvert, but the second test labeled me as both. I love to meet new people and talk to them about anything whether it is standing in line waiting to get checked out at the grociery store and even while riding in the elevator. If I have had a week when I have been around a lot of people, I prefer to sit at home on Saturday or Sunday, sometimes both and not answer the phone or hang out with friends. Sometimes close friends may not here from me for weeks at a time.
ReplyDeleteI feel like I am an introvert although I sometimes act like an extrovert. As a child, I was extremely reserved. I had to be rewarded by my parents for asking or ansering questions at school. I hated when the teacher would make us work in groups. As I got to high school and college, however, I started to come out of my shell and realize that life was easier if I was more outgoing. I have a small group of close friends and lots of acquaintances as it takes me a while to open up to new friends. I like to be by myself at times and find that when I get overwhelmed, I need that alone time. I love to go out but always need exact plans and worry about the details. Therefore, I believe I am an introvert with a few extrovert qualities.
ReplyDeleteThere is no question about my being an introvert. I am perfectly capable of interacting with others in normal ways and may even seem gregarious at times, but that only comes with great effort on my part. I prefer to watch others interact than to participate and seldom initiate conversations. Growing up, I was the only one of my many cousins to bring a book the the family gatherings tucking myself away in a corner while they chatted and joked. In college, when I found a wonderful group of friends with whom I shared many common interests and whose company I greatly enjoyed, I often felt stressed out by speding so much emotional energy keeping up with even pleasant interactions. I would frequently run away to hike, take long bicycle rides, or just wander around listening to music. When I need my batteries recharged, I turn inward by listening to music, writing, reading, hiking. I need my fortress of solitude to stay strong.
ReplyDeleteI found this smorgasboard of tests:
http://similarminds.com/personality_tests.html
I plan to play around with them when I have a spare moment. Just what an introvert loves--greater self-exploration.
I am right in between. I am a very social person and I do like to be around people in a social setting and am very capable of working collaboratively with my team but on the other hand I do enjoy spending time on my own and self exploring what I am going to be covering.Once I have spend my time exploring I love to share ideas.
ReplyDeleteI consider myself a mix between the two personalities. According to the various exams that I have taken, I am right in the middle. Sometimes, I am energized from being around people. At other times, I find social gatherings exhausting. Occasionally, I enjoy being alone so that I can concentrate and focus. Overall, I feel that I am an excellent observer and listener.
ReplyDeleteI believe I am a good mix of both. I enjoy hanging out with people, but I do like my time alone to re-energize myself. I also have a very phlegmatic personality. I enjoy watching how people operate, and then giving my input.
ReplyDeleteBy being in between both types, I feel I am able to understand and get a better read on my students and people in general.
I guess I would say I'm both it just depends on my mood. When I was younger I was an extrovert off the charts. I couldn’t go anywhere by myself and I always had to have someone with me. Now that I'm older I love spending time alone and I’m not afraid to go places by myself actually I prefer it. I don't have to be the life of the party like when I was younger but sometimes I find myself being one of the ones that is the life of the party(just depends on how I feel). Maybe that has a lot to do with being a wife and a mother of two small children. But I am still very comfortable in groups and even when I am sick I don't have to be by myself. But you won’t catch me buried in a book. I am one of those people who meet know strangers I start conversations with everyone. I have had conversations with everyone on my campus from cafeteria workers to custodial staff. When it's time to be in a group I'm usually the group leader. I don't need a crowd to get my energy I usually find it within myself.
ReplyDeleteI am an introvert. An introvert is a person who enjoys spending time thinking and reflecting. Introverts draw energy from within themselves vs. extroverts who draw energy from others. According to several Introvert/Extrovert Tests, it is proven that I am truly an introvert.
ReplyDeleteFor example, when completing lesson plans, I MUST have space and quiet time to think things through. It is difficult for me to feel comfortable socializing in large gatherings.